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Home » Blog » Homestead burnout: What is it?

Homestead burnout: What is it?

October 22, 2018 by Chelsea Wells-Barrett 8 Comments

Oh, the homestead burnout. Here are a few ways to deal with homestead burnout, should you experience it.

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Table of contents

  • What homestead burnout is, how you get it and what to do about it.
    • What is homestead burnout?
    • Why am I experiencing homestead burnout?
    • How do I deal with burnout?
    • To summarize homestead burnout

What homestead burnout is, how you get it and what to do about it.

Often us homesteader bloggers make life seem so perfect. Our Instagrams are filled with beautiful pictures of luscious gardens, our published posts give the idea we know everything already, and it can be quite discouraging.

When I started this blog, I made a promise to myself that I would try to stay away from making everything seem “perfect”. To avoid burnout, I try to remind my readers (that’s you!) that I don’t know it all…and surely never will.

Gardening kicks my butt and I get pretty messed up still after butchering day. I’ve been at this life for almost 3 years now and, although it’s getting easier, it isn’t always easy.

What is homestead burnout?

You can call it whatever you want, really. Gardening burnout, homestead burnout, farming burnout, complete overwhelming of life, etc. You mostly experience burnout when you’re just trying to do TOO MUCH.

This means you’re trying to do your daily chores, the projects that must be complete, but still pushing yourself to do the projects you just simply want to do. Within this lifestyle, there are sacrifices of all kinds that must sometimes be made.

For example, I really want to get my medicinal herb garden going but before I can do that the second hen house must be finished. I have to understand that the hen house takes priority, but the medicinal garden will get done eventually.

If we’re talking reality, burnout happens in multiple walks of life. Business owners are overloaded with clients, mothers or fathers are overloaded with children and chores, or maybe you just lack structure in your life which can lead to spiraling.

Note: That is definitely not saying I always have a structure in my life! If you read my posts often, you know this is a #NoJudgementZone. Find what works for you, not everyone else.

Why am I experiencing homestead burnout?

Personally, I get in these funks every now and then where I just feel so overwhelmed and lost. I’m currently pulling myself out of one of these said funks, which is what prompted me to write about homestead burnout. Fall is here and there’s just really not so much to be done compared to the Spring and Summer.

Most of my projects and problems seem to present themselves right before Fall hits. Every year, I go from being “slammed” with projects to entering into Fall with not-as-many-projects. I seem unthankful, and I don’t mean to give off that impression. It’s nice to have a break once the Fall rolls around! But I also slip into this feeling of uselessness. I was go-go-go for so long and then the opposite occurs, so it’s just a large adjustment.

How do I deal with burnout?

Option #1

This is what I’m learning. I can tell you the one thing that’s helped the most when you’ve lost your drive is to physically make a list of the 5 top reasons why your drive was there in the first place? Here are my 5 top reasons for homesteading, in no particular order:

  1. I want to know where my food is coming from for peace of mind and health benefits.
  2. I want to work towards a sense of self-sustainability and self-sufficiency. Not to be alone, but to have skills to help my family and neighbors in need when they need it. This alone can cause homestead burnout!
  3. I acknowledge that this lifestyle is the best one for me mentally, physically, and emotionally. I love being connected to the Earth and becoming more aware of the world around me. Solitude isn’t a sorry way to live, within moderation.
  4. Children aren’t far off for my husband and I. It’s very important to me to raise my children in this lifestyle. (This is a BIG part of what drives me!)
  5. And finally, I am driven to work towards this lifestyle to make it easier on my working husband. To reduce our overhead and have the knowledge to teach him the ins and outs of the farm once he’s here more often.

Option #2

Yes, Fall is always a part of the year that I feel the homestead burnout coming on because there’s not as much to do. And yes, some things have to take priority over the things we would rather be doing.

So with all of that said, since the Fall is a slow time for me I do try to start projects that I WANT to do, not that I HAVE to do. That medicinal herb garden? I plan to have it done by the end of the year. It’s something I’ve been looking forward to and I’ve worked my hiney off getting everything else done.

Take advantage of your slow seasons and choose a project or two that you just simply “want”. You haven’t given up your freedom and you aren’t a slave to your homestead, do please remember that folks.

To summarize homestead burnout

So to throw out a conclusion for you, this is normal. Burnout is normal. Let’s talk about it! You’re not alone in this life or in this experience and there’s no reason why a dialogue can’t be started.

I’ll admit it’s super vulnerable to admit that you’re reaching the stage of burnout. Declaring that you’re burnt out makes it seem to some people that you’re giving up or you’re tired of what you’re doing.

Neither of those things is always the case, sometimes you just simply need a break. Do you ever experience homestead burnout? Tell me about it!

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  1. Heather says

    February 26, 2020 at 3:04 am

    I know this was written in 2018 and things might be different now, but since you are planning to someday have kids, you might plan (to the best of ability to even “plan” this, LOL) to have a baby with a fall birthday. Not winter though! (As a winter baby myself I cannot recommend it for others haha) But he first thing that struck me is, that might make it easier to get through the trials of childbirth and the immediate months after. 🙂

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    • Chelsea Wells-Barrett says

      March 4, 2020 at 9:40 pm

      Hi Heather! It all still applies! Due to work schedules outside of the farm, we’re planning to have a spring (hopefully) one day! It is the busiest gardening time for us in Florida but I had to weigh all my options. Hopefully, I go into labor AFTER all my gardens are planted! LOL One can hope; we’ll see how it goes! Thanks for stopping by to chat!

      Reply
  2. Micah says

    December 21, 2019 at 2:23 pm

    I always loved the Fall and Winter months because that’s when my grandmother, mother, and aunties would tackle their craft projects: knitting, crocheting, quilting, and sewing were all done during the colder months when they were cooped up in their homes. We just purchased our home this summer, so I can’t wait to emulate them with this pattern!

    Reply
    • Chelsea Wells-Barrett says

      January 3, 2020 at 1:22 am

      That sounds so wonderful! Congrats on your new home and I wish you so many wonderful things in this new year!

      Reply
  3. tarahlynn says

    October 31, 2018 at 6:31 pm

    Great article! Thanks for sharing with us at the To Grandma’s house we go link party see you next week!

    Reply
    • thegreenacrehomestead says

      October 31, 2018 at 6:37 pm

      Thanks Tarah Lynn! Looking forward to it!

      Reply
  4. candy says

    October 25, 2018 at 1:04 pm

    There are days when I really don’t want to day anything but the chores which have to be done. That is okay it is a me day. I understand your burn out. I welcome fall and winter because I can do more inside stuff for me. Found you on Simple Homestead Blog Hop

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    • thegreenacrehomestead says

      October 25, 2018 at 4:07 pm

      I feel the same way, Candy! I’ll admit the nice weather gives me a little more motivation when I’m down in a rut. I’ve enjoyed the baking and everything, too. Thanks for stopping by the hop!

      Reply

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